Why She Forgot About You

Dear reader, a friend once told me his story about how he met a girl called Serena at a dinner party, they talked and exchanged phone numbers. After the party, he walked her home. At her door they shook hands and she told him to call her when he get's home just to confirm if everything was alright, they then said goodnight to each other. When he got home he called her, The next morning he sent her a "good morning" text message which she replied. He then called her in the afternoon and evening and they talked as usual. Late in the night, she called him and they had a nice long chat. The next day, he called her in the morning, in the afternoon he called and they arranged to go on a dinner date which her friends were coming also. After the date he walked her home and kissed her goodnight. The next morning he texted which she didn't reply, afternoon he called and she was talking like she wasn't interested. In the evening, he texted her, and the content of the text was the proclamation of his feelings for her which she didn't reply. The next morning he called like four times and she didn't answer, afternoon he texted her, no reply, he then called her in the evening which she didn't answer. So, he was like confused because he didn't understand what was happening and he didn't know what went wrong.

So "what was happening?" and "where did he go wrong?".

The above two questions is what we'll be answering. So, i guess you should read on

#1, what's happening?
At the beginning of the whole thing, if you noticed, the girl was kinda into him and after sometime she started slacking away. Do you know why she started slacking? Not because it was natural or somthing else but, it's just that the guy said and did somethings that were completely outta the book and irrelevant which Degraded her interest in him. So, Dear reader, i guess you now know what was going on.

#2, where did he go wrong?
His wrong doings are: When he called her in the afternoon after the morning's text message, the call in the evening, the next day's morning call and the major ERRORs were the group date and the text proclaiming his feelings towards her.
I'm not trying to say that texting and calling a girl is bad, it only becomes a big no no when it's too often. As in this case, notice, the guy texted her in the morning, called her in the afternoon and evening and they still talked at night. Now dear reader Wasn't that enough?. It was enough, but he still called her the next morning. What i'm trying to say here is that, he didn't pose a challenge to her, he was literally throwing himself at her feet and that my friend, reduced the interest level the girl had for him. What i meant by challenge was that, things he should've done, like making her long for and miss him, think about him like "what's he doing now?" "who's he with?" "where is he?" you know them.. etc. And he shouldn't have called her the next day, he should have called a week later or at least five days later, but i strongly recommend "a week later". However, i seriously advice that you shouldn't call a girl too often as it leads to decrease in interest level.
As for the date, notice, it was their first real date, he should have gone for a single date not a group one and i guess they didn't really spend quality time together, it was just some random stuff no romance in the air.
So i seriously advice against group dates, especially if it's the first time the two of you are going on a date.
Next is the text containing his feelings.
Oh my God! He shouldn't have done that. I ain't saying you shouldn't proclaim your feelings towards someone but it should be very very rare, you should let your actions do the talking, after all, they say action speak louder than words. And it was way to early to start PROCLAIMING.

So Dear reader, that's that. I guess you should know what to do when you fall into his shoes someday, that's if you aren't already in it, just follow my steps and trust me, you won't have a problem.
Huh! Before i forget, it wasn't really a friend's story, it was my story back in the days.. Haha!!